Controlling the Narrative of Your Legacy
How will you like to be remembered? What will be the defining element of your legacy?
Since his death, George Floyd’s name has become synonymous with a global call to address systemic racism. Millions of people around the world have spoken out and marched in an effort to address systematic racism. At a personal level, our oldest son Micah Wessman died unexpectedly in 2009. Following his death, my wife and I founded a nonprofit organization now called Hope for the Mourning to help fellow grieving parents. While both George Floyd and Micah Wessman have a legacy beyond their own lifetimes, neither of them had a choice in creating that legacy.
Many of us will, however, have the opportunity to control the narrative of our legacy. Especially in these difficult days of the global pandemic, I have had the opportunity to discuss with some of my clients the legacy we hope to leave. The preparation of a “Legacy Letter,” also known as an Ethical Will, allows us to articulate those desires. While holding no legal significance, a Legacy Letter can serve as an autobiographical narrative, a proclamation for family and friends of one’s deeply-held beliefs. You and your clients might consider writing a Legacy Letter for the following reasons: